"I've been with my boyfriend for 10 years, and just doing level one questions so far, I've learned things about him I didn't know!!" - Review by Laurie 1/11/23

We are living through a crisis of communication.

As a therapist, I hear complaints about relationships and dating nearly everyday. Trust me when I say that the bar is SO low. I constantly hear complaints like:

• "All I want is someone to actually ask questions about me on a date."
• "He's cute, but it's like I'm talking to a wall."
• "We've been together for years, but I still feel like we never know what to talk about?"
• "I feel like my conversations on dating apps always fizzle out after the initial introductions."

Questions from the book:

• Do you tend to hold grudges or let things go? Explain.
• When did you first start realizing you are attracted to the types of people you are attracted to?
• What aspects of your lifestyle are you unwilling to compromise on?
• What is something that are you extremely opinionated about?
• What is the best part of dating for you?
• How important are labels to you in a relationship?

• Questions categorized by level of depth from ice-breakers to serious relationship questions.
• An entire section of spicy questions to explore preferences and attitudes toward sex.
• No-frills, to-the-point style.
• Convenient paperback size that easily fits in a bag or even a back pocket.