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He's Scared, She's Scared

Understanding the Hidden Fears That Sabotage Your Relationships

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He's Scared, She's Scared

By: Steven Carter, Julia Sokol
Narrated by: Kevin Young
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Available for the first time in audiobook, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitment phobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships.

Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offers guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.

©1993 Steven Carter and Julia Sokol Coopersmith (P)2012 Audible, Inc. Love, Dating & Attraction Relationships Inspiring Dating Witty
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Why do some people seem incapable of forming lasting relationships? This audiobook argues that people who frequently find themselves in short, unsatisfying unions often have unexplored commitment issues they need to address. In firm but reassuring tones, performer Kevin Young presents the authors' findings, drawn from hundreds of interviews, which show relationship problems may be less about your partners and more about you. The authors also share helpful strategies to identify, understand, and resolve your issues so that you can be free to pursue the deep and sustained love you deserve.
Eye-opening Insights • Relatable Examples • Practical Understanding • Transformative Perspective • Validating Content

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loved it. so much info. what a revelation I had about myself. these authors need to keep writing more books on dating.

a must listen

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I wish I had read this book earlier in life. So many of the symptoms are described so clearly with examples of people who have experienced them. An excellent book for recognizing people who have difficulty with commitment.

Important if Commitment is an issue

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Hard to hear. Like looking into a mirror. I've been both. Good to have some light, finally, on my confusion.

Wish I'd read this 20 years ago.

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I was recommended this book from another book called “Anxious Hearts Guide” which I found after a very short, intense, and tumultuous relationship. This book has given me more insight into my own thoughts, feelings, and behaviors in romantic relationships than I could have ever imagined. Incredibly accurate to how relationships between people with (usually SUBconscious) commitment issues play out. It was like someone was writing the story of my latest relationship word for word. I would recommend it to anyone who struggles in romantic relationships, or is confused why things don’t seem to work the way they think they will with partners. Five stars.

This book is a life saver.

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Finally a book that validates, explains, gives you guidance and don’t sell you romantic bs

This is a great book!

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