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Badass Softie

Badass Softie

By: Dr. J.J. Peterson
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A Badass Softie is unapologetically ambitious and leads with heart. Ambitious and kind. Fun and driven. Powerful and deeply human.

Badass Softie, hosted by Dr. J.J. Peterson, is a podcast that challenges the false choice leaders are too often given: be strong or be compassionate. The world doesn’t just need more leaders — it needs leaders bold enough to make an impact and compassionate enough to make it meaningful. Each episode pulls back the curtain on leaders, creators, and innovators who are rewriting the rules of what real leadership looks like. You’ll walk away with stories, insights, and practical takeaways that show you how to lead with both strength and softness — the very definition of being a Badass Softie.

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Episodes
  • Why Your Message Isn’t Landing (Yet)
    Apr 6 2026

    So many leaders feel like they’re saying the right things… and still not being heard.

    They create content. They follow the strategies. They build what they’ve been told will work. And yet—something doesn’t land.

    In this conversation, Dr. J.J. Peterson sits down with Macy Robison, a strategist behind the resonant thought leadership system, to explore why that disconnect happens—and what to do about it.

    Macy has spent years helping experts, authors, and entrepreneurs translate their ideas into messaging that actually resonates. Not by teaching them to be louder or more polished—but by helping them align how they communicate with how they naturally think, express, and lead.

    Because the truth is, not every voice is meant to show up the same way.

    Some leaders create transformation through speaking. Others through writing. Others through guiding experiences or solving problems in real time. And when you try to force yourself into a format that doesn’t fit, your message doesn’t just weaken—it disappears.

    This conversation unpacks the hidden reason so many messages fall flat, why traditional marketing tactics don’t work for everyone, and how understanding your natural communication style can completely change how you build your business and connect with others.

    It also challenges a belief many leaders quietly carry: that there’s a “right” way to show up.

    There isn’t.

    There’s only the way that actually works for you. If you’re curious how you naturally show up and communicate, Macy’s assessment is a powerful place to start: https://macyrobison.com/quiz

    What This Explores
    • Why your message can be strong—but still not resonate
    • The hidden mismatch between your voice and your strategy
    • Why some marketing tactics feel ineffective (even when they work for others)
    • Different ways leaders naturally communicate and create impact
    • How to translate “in-the-room” magic into content that connects
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    22 mins
  • Why Great Leaders Don’t Try to Eliminate Tension
    Mar 30 2026

    Dr. J.J. Peterson sits down with designer, strategist, and storyteller Justin Ahrens to explore a part of leadership most people try to avoid: tension.

    There’s a natural pull to resolve things quickly—to choose a side, simplify the path, or chase clarity. But some of the most meaningful leadership doesn’t come from eliminating tension. It comes from learning how to stay present inside it.

    This conversation moves through the reality of holding competing priorities at the same time—the weight of doing meaningful work while navigating everyday responsibilities, the balance between ambition and humanity, and the challenge of staying grounded in a world that keeps speeding up.

    At the center of it all is a simple but difficult idea: the work itself isn’t what makes it meaningful. It’s how you show up while doing it.

    What This Explores
    • Why tension isn’t something to fix, but something to pay attention to
    • The difference between “important work” and meaningful leadership
    • How to stay human while still pursuing ambitious goals
    • What it looks like to lead with curiosity instead of certainty
    • The role tension plays in growth, awareness, and better decision-making

    This conversation may resonate with you if you’ve ever questioned whether you’re doing the “right” kind of work, or felt the pull between who you want to be and what’s required of you.

    If it does, consider sharing it with someone who’s navigating that same tension—quietly trying to lead well without losing themselves in the process.

    Mentioned In This Episode Book: Be HumanKind: https://www.behumankind.today/ At The Table: https://www.atthetable.is/ Podcast: Running Aherns (Dr. J.J.’s episode): https://www.runningahrens.today/podcast/when-your-story-changes-how-jj-and-jamie-rebuilt-life-love-and-home Follow Badass Softie Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/badasssoftiepod/ Website: https://www.badasssoftie.com/
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    28 mins
  • What You Don’t Notice Matters More Than You Think
    Mar 23 2026

    There are things happening right in front of us that we can’t see.

    Not because we’re ignoring them. Not because we don’t care. But because our experience has never required us to notice them.

    Dr. JJ Peterson explores how two people can look at the same situation, care about the same outcome, and still walk away with completely different conclusions—not because one of them is wrong, but because they’re standing in a different place.

    Drawing on standpoint theory and real-world examples, Dr. JJ Peterson unpacks how lived experience shapes what feels normal, what feels like a problem, and what often goes unnoticed entirely.

    For leaders, this creates a critical challenge.

    Because the things we don’t have to think about are often the very things someone else is navigating every single day. And when those differences go unseen, they don’t just create misunderstanding—they create blind spots in leadership, communication, and decision-making.

    This perspective invites a shift away from certainty and toward curiosity, offering a more grounded and human way to lead, listen, and connect.

    What This Explores
    • Why thoughtful, intelligent people can see the same situation differently
    • How lived experience shapes perception and decision-making
    • The blind spots that show up in leadership and communication
    • Why empathy alone doesn’t replace lived experience
    • How expanding perspective leads to stronger connections and better leadership

    This may resonate with leaders who are striving to make thoughtful decisions while recognizing there may still be perspectives they haven’t yet seen.

    It may also resonate with those who often find themselves seeing things others don’t—and carrying the weight of that awareness.

    If this brought someone to mind, consider sharing it with them. Not to change their perspective, but to better understand where they’re standing.

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    20 mins
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