Episodes

  • Understanding the Enneagram | Q&A with Ian Morgan Cron

    Understanding the Enneagram | Q&A with Ian Morgan Cron
    Apr 1 2026
    In this Q&A episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is joined by bestselling author, psychotherapist, and Enneagram teacher Ian Morgan Cron to explore how the Enneagram can transform the way we understand ourselves and the people we love.
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    51 mins
  • Should I Stay or Should I Go? | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer

    Should I Stay or Should I Go? | Q&A with Dr. Jennifer
    Mar 25 2026
    Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife discusses the decision to stay in or leave a marriage, why you can't truly choose your spouse if divorce never feels like a real option, and what honest reckoning actually looks like.
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    42 mins
  • The Sex Talk Your Kids Actually Need

    The Sex Talk Your Kids Actually Need
    Mar 10 2026
    In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Holly J. Moore of the Made for Moore podcast to discuss how parents can approach conversations about sex and sexuality with their children in a way that is honest, ongoing, and shame-free. They explore why discomfort doesn't have to be a barrier, how to begin these conversations early and keep them going, and how offering values around sexuality — rather than fear or shame — empowers children to make informed, confident, and integrity-driven choices as they grow.
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    32 mins
  • Using the Enneagram to Understand Your Relationship | Room for Two Teaser

    Using the Enneagram to Understand Your Relationship | Room for Two Teaser
    Mar 5 2026
    Brad and Kate have been working to understand themselves and each other better, using the Enneagram to better understand how they each respond to stress and disconnection. They've been talking more openly and defending less—but when tensions rise, Brad moves toward action and physical closeness, hoping connection will bring relief while Kate pulls back, wanting to feel emotionally secure before opening up. This leaves Brad feeling rejected and Kate worried that intimacy is more about sex itself than truly being with her. Because Brad seems steady on the surface and Kate is openly emotional, it's easy for both of them to assume she's the problem—but they're equally dysregulated, just in different ways.
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    43 mins
  • ADHD in Marriage

    ADHD in Marriage
    Feb 24 2026
    In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife joins Kamden Hainsworth of the Busy Brained Saint podcast to talk about what it looks like for both partners in a neurodiverse marriage to show up as whole people — owning what is theirs, releasing what isn't, and finding more freedom than they expected on the other side.
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    41 mins
  • Keeping the Spark Alive

    Keeping the Spark Alive
    Feb 18 2026
    In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins the Date Your Spouse team to talk about what couples can do to bring a sense of aliveness to their marriage. She challenges the idea that going along to keep the peace is an act of love, explains why duty-based sex quietly destroys desire, and offers a surprisingly simple practice any couple can try TONIGHT to create more intimacy and connection.
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    31 mins
  • Making Peace with Our Sexuality

    Making Peace with Our Sexuality
    Feb 10 2026
    In this episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Dan Purcell of the Get Your Marriage On podcast to discuss her book That We Might Have Joy and the role of eros energy—the aliveness that emerges when couples stop running their marriages from fear, control, and ego. Through stories from the book—like Samuel, whose fear of sexual feelings kept him stuck, and Bradley, whose relentless pursuit of sex was driven by shame—Dr. Jennifer shows how sexual repression doesn’t make us more spiritual. It just keeps us fragmented.
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    34 mins
  • New Year, Same You? | Creating Change That Lasts [Q&A with Dr. Jennifer]

    New Year, Same You? | Creating Change That Lasts [Q&A with Dr. Jennifer]
    Feb 2 2026
    In this episode, Dr. Finlayson-Fife uses questions submitted by listeners to drive a discussion about how we can create transformation in ourselves and in our relationships.
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    59 mins