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Dads And Daddies

Dads And Daddies

By: Brian Rubin-Sowers and Judson Morrow
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Dads and Daddies features frank, unrehearsed conversations between one Gen X Dad of two and one Millennial self-identified ‘Daddy,’ with a focus on their personal stories of sex, love and marriage, plus topics spanning parenthood, Daddyhood, family, friendship, identity, money, addiction & recovery, and so many more that reveal the deeply intimate details of what it means to live life as adult gay men today.Copyright 2024 All rights reserved. Hygiene & Healthy Living Relationships Social Sciences
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  • Brian and Judson hookup with Bright Light Bright Light and talk career building as an independent artist, befriending your heroes, hypocrisy within the queer community and whether sex is an interesting subject for music
    Apr 7 2026

    Judson considers moving in with Brian. Brian and his family make a return visit to Cats: The Jellicle Ball now that it’s on Broadway. Judson sets out on an adventure to find his misdelivered phone. Brian and his husband participate in their neighborhood’s annual progressive dinner. The Hookup of the Week comes from a repeat submitter who takes some lessons from the podcast into his latest encounter. The two are then joined by Rod Thomas, aka electro-pop music artist and DJ Bright Light Bright Light! Rod sits down with Brian and Judson just two days before kicking off his co-headling Cosmic Light tour with “Queen of the Universe” winner and “Drag Race Brasil” host, Grag Queen, and talks about his mission with this and every one of his tours to bring joy and build community during these dark and divisive times. He teaches Brian and Judson all about his home country of Wales and its connection to music, he goes deep into his friendships and collaborations with Elton John and Scissor Sisters, and talks about how he has made a name and career for himself without ever signing with a label. They discuss the prevalence of misogyny in the gay community, they share thoughts on maintaining youth and taking risks throughout one’s life, and they debate the importance of sex as a subject of artistic expression. Rod then helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a 50 year-old listener in a 25-year open relationship who has never used the gay hookup apps and wants advice about how to start.

    Find Bright Light Bright Light on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/brightlightx2, on TikTok at https://www.tiktok.com/@brightlightx2 and at his site https://www.brightlightx2.com/

    See Bright Light Bright Light on his co-headling Cosmic Light tour with Grag Queen: https://www.brightlightx2.com/cosmiclight

    Email your Hookup of the Week, Go Ask Your Dad and Dr. Daddy submissions to dadsanddaddies@gmail.com

    Dads and Daddies on the Web: https://www.dadsanddaddies.com/

    Dads and Daddies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod

    Dads and Daddies on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsanddaddiespod

    Dads and Daddies on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/dadsanddaddiespod.bsky.social

    Your hosts, Dad Brian Rubin-Sowers - https://www.instagram.com/ditmasparkpapa

    and Daddy Judson Morrow - https://www.instagram.com/gunclejudson

    Edited by Toby Rubin-Sowers


    Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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    1 hr and 17 mins
  • Brian and Judson hookup with Grey Henson and talk the sexual appeal of Bigfoot, the challenges of dating as an actor, Daddy physique vs energy, and moving past the fear of new connections
    Mar 31 2026

    Judson and his husband escape to the warm weather getaway of Playa Del Carmen. Brian feels his age during back to back nights on the town, but the outings also inspire a night of youthful sex with his husband. The Hookup of the Week finds a listener trying out The Blowers after hearing about it on this podcast, and finding new joy in receiving oral sex. Brian and Judson are then joined by Broadway musical theatre star Grey Henson! Grey takes Brian and Judson through his nonstop career that took off immediately upon leaving college with his casting as Elder McKinley in the first national tour and Broadway productions of The Book of Mormon, through his Tony-nominated performance as the iconic role of Damian in Mean Girls, to 2023's surprise hit musical, Shucked, to starring as Buddy the Elf in the recent revival of Elf,to now playing the title role in the current off-Broadway show, Bigfoot The Musical. Grey also gets personal and talks about his search for a partner since moving to New York twelve years ago, the struggle of people making assumptions about who he is as a person based on how they perceive him on the stage, and the absence in his life of his father, both now that he has passed, but also even while he was alive. He also talks about existing at the paradox of having Daddy physique, but without feeling he possesses Daddy energy. Grey then helps Brian and Judson address a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who has become paralyzed with fear about making new connections.

    Find Grey Henson on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/greyhenson

    Email your Hookup of the Week, Go Ask Your Dad and Dr. Daddy submissions to dadsanddaddies@gmail.com

    Dads and Daddies on the Web: https://www.dadsanddaddies.com/

    Dads and Daddies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod

    Dads and Daddies on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsanddaddiespod

    Dads and Daddies on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/dadsanddaddiespod.bsky.social

    Your hosts, Dad Brian Rubin-Sowers - https://www.instagram.com/ditmasparkpapa

    and Daddy Judson Morrow - https://www.instagram.com/gunclejudson

    Edited by Toby Rubin-Sowers


    Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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    1 hr and 32 mins
  • Brian and Judson hookup with Eric Williams and talk being slut podcasters comparing coasts, making bad money, and sleeping with friends
    Mar 24 2026

    Judson goes to San Francisco and reconnects with an old flame from fifteen years ago. Brian goes to DC and spends the weekend with friends of more than 25 years who he credits with making him the adult gay man he is today. The two talk about how the conversations they have every week on the podcast have impacted their sex lives. The Hookup of the Week follows a listener’s birthday adventures at his favorite bathhouse. Brian and Judson are then joined by comedian, actor and host of the immensely popular “That’s a Gay Ass Podcast,” Eric Williams. Eric talks about the origins of both his hit podcast and his open marriage, how his mom came to find out he and his husband are open, how his gay life is blossoming after a move from New York to L.A., and the truth behind the gay marriage question. He also tells Brian and Judson about “Why All the Drama,” the solo show he’s currently touring around the US, his struggles making bad money for great work, and his aspirations for the future of his life and career. Eric then helps Brian and Judson respond to a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener asking about having sex with friends, and the difference between repeat hookups with friends versus strangers.

    Find Eric Williams on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/ericwillz/

    Find That’s a Gay Ass Podcast on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/gayasspodcast/

    Find Eric's Confession Hole on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/confession.hole/

    Email your Hookup of the Week, Go Ask Your Dad and Dr. Daddy submissions to dadsanddaddies@gmail.com

    Dads and Daddies on the Web: https://www.dadsanddaddies.com/

    Dads and Daddies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod

    Dads and Daddies on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsanddaddiespod

    Dads and Daddies on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/dadsanddaddiespod.bsky.social

    Your hosts, Dad Brian Rubin-Sowers - https://www.instagram.com/ditmasparkpapa

    and Daddy Judson Morrow - https://www.instagram.com/gunclejudson

    Edited by Toby Rubin-Sowers


    Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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    1 hr and 39 mins
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