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From Fear to Fun: Allow the child to approach

From Fear to Fun: Allow the child to approach

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This episode explores why the first seconds of a paediatric consultation are so decisive. Children decide almost instantly whether they will engage or withdraw. By allowing them to approach the unknown at their own pace, we give them control, reduce fear, and open the door to cooperation.

We cover:

  • Why the first seconds determine whether a child will engage
  • How calling the child by name and waving signals friendliness and safety
  • Why children need time and space to “check out” the doctor
  • How allowing the child to walk toward you grants autonomy and reduces fear
  • How to “lure” a child closer through curiosity and playful comments
  • Why accepting a child’s refusal (e.g., not shaking hands) builds trust
  • How “ear‑television” triggers curiosity and shifts the tone of the encounter
  • How to address fear of pain or loss of control with clear, honest reassurance
  • Why step‑by‑step explanations provide certainty and calm
  • How a simple high‑five seals trust and cooperation

Key takeaway:

Allowing the child to approach the unknown at their own pace gives them control over the encounter — and that control reduces fear and builds trust.

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