Are you truly living like you're engaged to Jesus... or just

casually connected?

In this episode of the I AM HER Podcast, Pastor Lisa Kai and Bekah dive into the powerful analogy of engagement, both in relationships and in our walk with Christ. From hilarious proposal stories to deep spiritual truths, this conversation will challenge you to examine how you're living in the "waiting season."

This isn't just about waiting... It's about preparing.

Whether you've just said "yes" to Jesus or you've been walking with Him for years, this episode will stir your heart to live with urgency, devotion, and purpose.

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00:00 – Welcome + podcast banter
00:55 – Engagement topic introduction 01:24 – Ice cream sundae proposal story 04:37 – Beach surprise proposal
11:19 – Engaged to Jesus: the bigger picture 12:10 – Preparing as the bride
13:46 – Jewish wedding traditions explained 16:28 – Your first "yes" to Jesus
17:01 – Waiting with purpose (Part 1)
17:40 – Waiting with purpose (Part 2)
18:44 – Lessons in preparation

20:04 – Warning against casual faith
21:40 – Jesus prepares a place for us
23:38 – Wedding planning & spiritual parallels 25:12 – Undivided devotion to God
28:32 – Inviting others to the wedding feast 31:28 – Keeping your lamp full
34:33 – You need your own oil
37:57 – Encouragement + closing prayer

What if the very things you've been praying for, strength, patience, joy, and power, are already inside of you? In this powerful message from the Arise Conference, Pastor Lisa Kai reminds us that the fullness of Christ isn't something we're waiting to receive; it's something we already carry. The question isn't whether God has given it to you. The question is: will you live from it? Because the truth is... girl, you are so full of it.

At the Arise Conference, Pastor Lisa Kai delivers a powerful reminder that many believers spend their lives searching for what they already possess.

In this message, she challenges women to stop striving for more and start living from the fullness of Christ already inside them.

Through scripture, personal stories, and bold encouragement, Pastor Lisa reminds us that God has already equipped us with everything we need: patience, joy, authority, perseverance, and power.

And if you want access to all Arise Conference updates, messages, and exclusive content, you can purchase the Arise Drop Card, which unlocks everything from this powerful gathering. You won't want to miss what God is doing.

Because the truth is...

Girl, You Are So Full of It!

For more information on the Arise Conference 2026 Drop Card:
https://www.arise-movement.com

Lisa Kai Webpage for all books and resources: lisakai.tv

Lisa Kai Instagram: @lisakai

Lisa Kai YouTube: Lisa Kai

What happens when a mother says yes to God, and a daughter finds the courage to do the same?

In this deeply personal episode, Bekah sits down with her mom, Pastor Lisa Kai, to talk about fullness, obedience, rebellion, legacy, and the quiet moments that shape generations.

In this intimate I AM HER Podcast conversation, Bekah and her mom, Pastor Lisa Kai, reflect on motherhood, calling, and what it truly means to walk in God's fullness. From early seasons of Arise to moments of rebellion, obedience, sacrifice, and overflow, this episode captures the beauty of legacy lived out in real time.

Whether you're a mother, a daughter, or somewhere in between, this episode is an invitation to step into fullness and trust that your obedience creates courage in the next generation.

Arise Conference 2026, February 19 + 20 | Honolulu, HI
https://www.arise-movement.com

Lisa Kai Webpage: lisakai.tv

Lisa Kai Instagram: @lisakai

Bekah Lagafuaina Instagram: @bkaiii

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00:00 – Bekah introduces herself and her mom, Pastor Lisa Kai
00:45 – Bekah shares why her mom is her role model as a pastor, mother, and wife 02:00 – Pastor Lisa reflects on her role models and the women who shaped her life 04:10 – "I'm becoming mom" — the realization daughters have as they grow
06:36 – What walking in fullness really means
10:04 – "When a mother walks in fullness, a daughter walks in courage."
11:45 – How fullness is modeled through generations of women

16:30 – Obedience leads to overflow and ripple effects through families 20:30 – Three daughters, three seasons, one calling
24:00 – The moment Pastor Lisa saw Bekah truly turn toward God
28:21 – The story of the prodigal sons, and the Father who goes after both 30:08 – Trusting God's timing in relationships and identity

37:03 – 32 years of marriage and the calling that sustained it all
40:10 – Spiritual warfare, calling, and the early signs of Bekah's purpose 43:47 – Growing up in Arise and witnessing its full-circle moment today 50:35 – Obedience turns the page to your next chapter
51:40 – Mothers permitting their children to grow and make mistakes 59:30 – Honoring one another through every season of life
01:03:00 – Closing prayers over mothers and daughters