Episodes

  • 281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation

    281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation
    Mar 30 2026
    Struggling to last as long as you'd like to? In this episode, Kyle walks us through practical techniques and emotional shifts that help sex feel more connected, enjoyable, and unhurried. If performance anxiety has been stealing your joy, this conversation is for you! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Mindfulness with Dr. Lori Brotto Resources: The Penis Book Better Sex Through Mindfulness book ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:23 Today's Verse - 1:18 Sponsor Break - 1:30 Main Topic Introduction - 1:38 Premature Ejaculation Discussion - 2:17 Strategies and Techniques - 5:59 Pelvic Floor Exercises - 10:30 Mindfulness and Breathing - 13:25 Relational Dynamics - 18:24 Foreplay and Time Management - 22:32 Professional Help and Devices - 24:27 Conclusion and Prayer - 27:28 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    31 mins
  • 280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause

    280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause
    Mar 23 2026
    Let’s talk menopause and perimenopause- and the things no one warned us about. Tiera does a beautiful job of unpacking the physical and emotional shifts women experience, how it can impact sex, and what’s actually helpful in this season. We want to help you feel equipped and encouraged as you enter this time of life! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Mindfulness with Dr. Lori Brotto Resources: Evree Lube: Use the code KINGDOM for 10% off! Coconu Lube: Use the code KINGDOM for 15% off Yes! Vaginal Moisturizer : Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 15% off Better Sex Through Mindfulness book Sex Toys: Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Tiera’s Fertility/Menopause Doula Info: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Overview - 0:00 Discussing Menopause - 0:30 Understanding Menopause Terms - 2:06 Perimenopause Symptoms - 4:19 Hormonal Changes and Effects - 6:13 Blood Work and Diagnosis - 11:00 Common Symptoms and Treatments - 14:20 Vaginal Changes and GSM - 17:09 Libido and Hormone Therapy - 23:15 Testosterone Therapy Discussion - 27:34 Positive Outlook on Perimenopause - 35:04 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    48 mins
  • 279: Q&A: Morning Erections, My Wife's Body Hair, & Do Pillows Improve Sex?

    279: Q&A: Morning Erections, My Wife's Body Hair, & Do Pillows Improve Sex?
    Mar 16 2026
    Tune in as the KS team tackle real questions straight from IG followers- everything from body hair preferences and pursuing your spouse, to what’s actually going on with things like morning erections. Don't miss it! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Level Up Your Sex Life Add A Little Bit Of Spice episode Setting Up Your Future Marriage For Success Dispelling Wedding Night Fears Breaking Down Newlywed Barriers Birth Control episode Foreplay episode Lindsey Maestas episode Our Products: Unite & Ignite 5 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life Freebie It’s Getting Hot In Here Sex Challenge His Pleasure Sex Challenge Starting Life Together Bundle Engagement Guide Resources: Flirtation Experiment book Passionista book Intimately Us app: If you want the Just Between Us , the couples messaging app, open Intimately Us and tap ‘Chat’ in the bottom right. Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off Christian Friendly Sex Positions My Counselor Online Better Help Counseling The Penis Book ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Overview - 0:12 First Question: Body Hair Discussion - 1:31 Spicing Up Marriage - 10:19 Lift Pillows and Positions - 15:16 Helping Newlyweds Feel Comfortable - 16:59 Family Planning During Engagement - 19:18 Foreplay in Long-term Marriages - 21:41 Edging Explained - 24:03 Divorce Trends Discussion - 26:13 Morning Erections Explained - 32:50 Closing Prayer - 35:24 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    39 mins
  • 278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip

    278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
    Mar 10 2026
    We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! Ever feel like you’re carrying the invisible to-do list for your entire household? Tune in as Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins us to unpack the mental load in marriage- why it causes so much tension and how couples can start sharing it better to make sex great again! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: The Better Share Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself The Flirtation Experiment ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Opening and setup — 0:00–1:12 Sponsor break and guest intro — 1:12–2:04 Guest background and motivation — 2:04–7:01 Defining the mental load and its three domains — 7:01–12:54 The triple threat and implications for home life — 12:54–15:58 Externalizing the mental load and renegotiation as a team — 15:58–16:56 Mental load and sex dynamics — 16:56–23:07 Practical fairness conversations and communication — 23:07–28:03 Narration experiments and practical tools (appreciation, storytelling, and experiments) — 28:03–41:13 Closing, resources, and prayer — 41:52–44:27 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    47 mins
  • 277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas

    277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas
    Mar 2 2026
    We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! Tune in as Lindsey Maestas opens up about her journey through the ups and downs of marriage, sharing real-life tips on how to reconnect with your spouse and keep the spark alive. Lindsey's insights are super practical, so whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship or just need a little encouragement, this conversation is for you! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: Living Easy with Lindsey podcast Don’t Burn Your Own House Down Ruthless Elimination of Hurry Atomic Habits @livingeasywithlindsey ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Timestamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Sponsor Break - 0:28 Introduction of Guest: Lindsey Maestas - 0:34 Lindsey's Background and Book Introduction - 1:25 Discussion on Marriage and Relationships - 2:04 Lindsey's Personal Story and Challenges - 4:27 Marriage Challenges and Overcoming Them - 6:15 Importance of Intimacy and Connection - 12:24 Practical Tips for Marriage - 13:12 The Role of Prayer in Marriage - 16:54 The Impact of Technology on Relationships - 37:18 Final Thoughts and Closing Prayer - 47:56 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    49 mins
  • 276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other

    276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other
    Feb 23 2026
    We love our listeners, and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! https://forms.gle/2bYPts9fi1aBP8saA Want to vote on which episodes release? Become a patron today! Can having sex when you're in the middle of a disagreement be a helpful tool...? Is "make-up sex" actually better than normal sex? Tune in as the KS team explores how heart posture affects intimacy and practical ways to foster connection amidst ongoing conflicts. Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: Called to Peace Ministries ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Episode Title and Listener Engagement - 0:35 Verse of the Day - 1:03 Disclaimer on Conflict and Abuse - 1:28 Setting the Scene: Conflict and Intimacy - 2:19 Initial Reactions to the Episode Topic - 2:37 Discussion on Sex During Conflict - 3:05 Story from "Awaken Love" - 4:01 Personal Experiences and Reactions - 5:14 Exploring Anger and Intimacy - 10:38 Physical and Emotional Responses - 11:07 Conflict Resolution Strategies - 18:21 Compromise and Communication - 20:48 Makeup Sex and Emotional Intensity - 23:32 Sex as a Relationship Glue - 26:48 Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 27:46 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    31 mins
  • 275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove

    275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove
    Feb 16 2026
    We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with the advertisers you hear on the show! Tune in as Landon Hairgrove shares his personal journey of healing from trauma, balancing leadership in church planting, and intentionally leading his family. He shares practical advice on nurturing emotional health, fostering deep relationships as men, and becoming the man God has called you to be! Resources: Use the code KINGDOM15 and get 15% of all products at Lead Your Home @leadyourhome ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Time Stamps: Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Podcast Introduction by Kyle - 0:39 Introduction of Guest, Landon Hargrove - 1:27 Landon's Background and Story - 1:36 Journey into Church Planting - 4:01 Challenges and Personal Struggles - 7:31 Realization and Change - 9:21 Importance of Family and Personal Health - 10:19 Balancing Career and Family - 12:05 Leading from a Place of Identity - 13:06 Steps for Men to Start Leading - 18:10 Finding Balance and Managing Tension - 22:32 Importance of Community and Friendship - 40:10 Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 52:27 Where to Find Landon and Resources - 54:29 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    59 mins
  • 274: Sex, Generational Sin, and Breaking the Cycle in Your Family’s Legacy with Brook Mosser

    274: Sex, Generational Sin, and Breaking the Cycle in Your Family’s Legacy with Brook Mosser
    Feb 9 2026
    If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/kingdom We love our listeners and we want to know more about you! Please take 3 minutes to fill out this survey to share who you are & how you engage with our show! In this episode, we explore how generational patterns and wounds impact our understanding of sexuality, marriage, and family life. Brook Mosser shares insightful perspectives on recognizing these cycles, involving God in the healing process, and practical steps to create a legacy of health and wholeness for the next generation!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Resources: My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link Habits of the Household Ronald Rolheiser Sacred Fire Brook Mossers prayer book Intentionalparents.org Intentionalfatherhood.org ⁠⁠Join Unite & Ignite ⁠⁠ Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Approximate Episode Timestamps Introduction and Welcome - 0:00 Guest Introduction: Brooke Mosser - 1:02 Discussion on Generational Patterns - 2:41 Brooke's Personal Story and Family Background - 3:10 Understanding Generational Sin and Curses - 5:21 Epigenetics and Trauma - 8:09 The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex - 10:16 Creating a Healthy Sexual Culture in Families - 12:01 Balancing Parental Influence and Personal Responsibility - 24:16 Practical Steps for Healing and Involving Christ - 31:17 The Role of Therapy and Overcoming Financial Barriers - 38:09 Supporting a Spouse Through Generational Challenges - 40:54 Advice on Changing Legacy and Staying Committed - 47:42 Recommended Books and Resources - 50:24 Final Thoughts and Encouragement - 53:36 Closing Prayer - 57:12 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 1 min