Episodes

  • Divorcing Well with Barbara
    Apr 20 2026

    The conversation delves into the impact of divorce and co-parenting on children, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a positive relationship with the ex-spouse and prioritizing the well-being of the children. It also explores the role of hospice social workers and the impact of death and terminal illness on children. The discussion highlights the significance of seeking individual therapy during divorce and separation.

    Takeaways

    • Co-parenting focus
    • Maintaining positive relationship with ex-spouse

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Introduction and Background
    • 05:19 Creating Low-Risk Environments
    • 10:25 Communication and Relationship with Ex-Spouse
    • 18:32 Perception of Divorce and Co-Parenting
    • 28:03 Impact of New Relationships on Children
    • 41:15 Role of Hospice Social Worker
    • 47:00 Impact of Death and Terminal Illness on Children
    • 56:25 Seeking Individual Therapy
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    45 mins
  • Mothering a Son with Fiona Long
    Apr 13 2026

    The conversation delves into the importance of mothering sons in 2026, exploring the challenges and shifts in parenting over the years. It also discusses the transition of roles as sons grow, the significance of adolescence and independence, and the impact of fathers and partners. Additionally, it covers risk assessment and communication in parenting. The conversation covers the importance of creating a safe environment, open communication, and parental presence. It also delves into the role of media in family conversations, parental self-reflection, preparing for independence, and the significance of showing affection and understanding. Additionally, it emphasizes the importance of getting to know your child and fostering open dialogue.

    Takeaways

    • Parenting boys in 2026
    • Building self-discipline and empathy
    • Trusting the process and partners Open communication
    • Parental presence
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    55 mins
  • How AI Grooms and Why it Matters
    Apr 6 2026

    The conversation explores the impact of AI on children's emotional connection and the potential for AI to be used as a tool for grooming. It delves into the shift in how children experience connection, the dangers of synthetic intimacy, and the role of adults in protecting children from AI predators.

    Takeaways

    • AI is becoming a significant social layer in the lives of youth, impacting their emotional connection.
    • The use of AI chatbots by children poses a grooming risk, and adults need to be vigilant in protecting children from synthetic intimacy.
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    13 mins
  • Hidden Eggs: Easter and Grooming Risks in Faith Settings
    Mar 30 2026

    The episode discusses the importance of clear safety practices in religious gatherings, particularly during Easter. It addresses the reality of religious grooming and provides practical checklists and scripts for ensuring child safety in faith settings. The conversation emphasizes the need for vigilance and empowerment in protecting children from potential risks during religious events.

    Takeaways

    • Religious spaces are not immune to grooming
    • Clear safety practices are essential for religious gatherings

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Preparing for Easter
    • 06:20 Practical Checklist for Easter Weekend
    • 12:06 Inquiring About Safety Policies
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    13 mins
  • The Trojan Horse: Not a Break-In, but an Invitation
    Mar 23 2026

    The episode delves into the concept of grooming as an invitation rather than a break-in, and why that matters for parents today. It provides practical steps for parents to recognize and protect children from grooming, emphasizing the importance of collective protection in communities.

    Takeaways

    • Grooming is an invitation, not a break-in
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    10 mins
  • Access is Central
    Mar 18 2026

    The conversation covers the GAS model for child safety, the impact of technology on grooming, spotting grooming signals, and practical rules for parents, communication.

    Takeaways

    • Access is the primary safety lever
    • Teach kids to notice signals of potential danger

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Understanding the GAS Model
    • 05:10 Practical Rules for Parents
    • 10:20 Device Monitoring and Role Play
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    12 mins
  • Interview with Megan Farison
    Mar 13 2026

    The conversation delves into Megan Farison's experience of grooming and abuse by an educator, exploring her early life, belief system, and the manipulation and coercion she faced. It also highlights the importance of recognizing warning signs and the impact of disclosure and response. The conversation delves into the impact of isolation and favoritism, the ripple effect of reporting, the challenge of holding predators accountable, the writing process and purpose of her memoir, Dissonance, and the importance of forgiveness and self-compassion.

    Takeaways

    • Understanding the impact of grooming
    • Recognizing warning signs of abuse Increased awareness and education are crucial in preventing and addressing predatory behavior.
    • Recognizing attraction vs. predatory behavior is essential in creating safe environments for children.

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Introduction and Background
    • 08:32 Understanding Grooming and Abuse
    • 13:45 Initial Encounters and Grooming
    • 19:04 Manipulation and Coercion
    • 25:37 Escalation of Abuse
    • 31:10 Recognizing Warning Signs
    • 38:41 Disclosure and Response
    • 45:11 Increased Awareness and Education
    • 52:42 The Ripple Effect of Reporting
    • 01:06:09 The Writing Process and Purpose of Dissonance
    • 01:17:29 Recognizing Attraction vs. Predatory Behavior
    • 01:22:37 The Importance of Forgiveness and Self-Compassion
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    1 hr and 18 mins
  • Parent Response Guide to Grooming Suspicions
    Mar 10 2026

    This episode provides guidance for parents and families who have discovered signs of grooming in a trusted adult or older child. It focuses on protecting the child, preserving important information, and supporting family recovery. The conversation also addresses the shift in understanding experienced by survivors and the immediate steps parents should take when grooming is discovered.

    Takeaways

    • Grooming works through trust and can occur in various settings such as schools, sports teams, clubs, and online spaces.
    • Parents play a crucial role in protecting and supporting their children when grooming is discovered.
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    13 mins