James joins me for a podcast date after we’ve already been on a real one, which is obviously a very normal thing to do.We explore Pride chaos, Viagra logistics, embarrassing lore, dating icks, cheating loopholes, worm farm romance, and the important question of whether true love means building someone their own enclosure or vacuum sealing them to a wall :)One of the most chaotic and unhinged episodes in recent memory. Enjoy x

I’m joined by Anthony Voulgaris for a chaotic, unfiltered conversation about dating, friendship breakdowns, influencer culture, and the psychology behind modern relationships.

We get brutally honest about dating icks, red flags, and why confidence is attractive but insecurity is an instant turn-off. Anthony spills on bad dates, performative niceness, disappearing men, fake apologies, and the difference between being “nice” and being genuinely good.

We also dive into friendship drama, petty fights that are never actually petty, defensiveness, accountability, gossip, and why some people would rather justify their behaviour than reflect on it. Plus, influencer culture, social climbing, oversharing online, and the controversial idea that maybe shame needs to make a comeback.

Expect messiness, strong opinions, hot takes, and a full tea party on dating, friendships, and modern internet culture.

Comedian Meg Jager joins me for one of the funniest and most insightful episodes yet. We dive into autism, anxiety, anger, identity, dating, chaotic life choices, unhinged DMs and why only boring people get bored.

Meg opens up about discovering she’s autistic in adulthood, how that reframed her entire life (including realising she was bullied without knowing), and why her autism actually protected her. We also explore OCD, everyday rage, Melbourne tram etiquette, mental health as physical health, antidepressants, grief, burnout and the strangely calming world of pimple-popping videos.

And of course… we expose some of Meg’s wildest DMs — from unsolicited “confessions of love” to sour reactions when she doesn’t reply. The parasocial relationships are real.

If you love episodes about autism, mental health, dating, feminism, comedy, boundaries and modern adulthood, this one is for you.

• Autism in adulthood & the moment everything “clicked”
• Why Meg thought her bullies were confusing her with another Meg
• OCD, anxiety & the physical symptoms no one talks about
• Everyday rage & Melbourne’s complete lack of spatial awareness
• Why some people get bored — and why Meg never does
• The mental load on women vs men’s learned helplessness
• Parasocial DMs & men treating comedy like Hinge
• Boundaries, love languages & being misunderstood
• Weight, antidepressants & navigating burnout
• Grief, family, community & the butterfly effect

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