Playing, Coaching, Parenting: A Tennis Journey Through Different Stages of the Game

In this episode of the SMART Tennis™ Podcast, we sit down with Declan Berndt to explore how tennis evolves across different stages of life… from competitive play, to coaching, to raising kids in the game.

This conversation highlights how tennis is more than just a sport.
It becomes a framework for learning, growth, and connection: shaping players, coaches, and families over time.

Declan shares insights from his experience as a competitive college player, a coach, and now a parent navigating the game alongside his kids. Together, we unpack what really matters when it comes to long-term development, enjoyment, and building a healthy relationship with tennis.

• How tennis evolves from competition into a lifelong activity
• The differences between playing, coaching, and parenting in the sport
• Why fun, environment, and community matter more than early results
• How to avoid burnout and keep kids engaged in the game
• What parents should look for when choosing a tennis program
• How tennis builds confidence, resilience, and life perspective
• The role of accessibility and affordability in growing the sport
• How modern approaches like the SMART Tennis™ Method are helping more families get started

The goal isn’t just to develop great tennis players…
It’s to help kids and families enjoy the process, stay engaged, and build something that lasts.

When tennis is introduced the right way, it becomes:

✔ A source of confidence✔ A place for community✔ A lifelong skill

00:00 - Introduction and background
02:38 - College tennis experiences and transitions
04:20 - Lessons learned through competition
06:34 - Burnout and balancing tennis with life
07:26 - Parenting and introducing kids to tennis
10:21 - Controlling what you can on and off the court
12:57 - Training approaches and development
14:08 - Finding the right environment for growth
16:43 - Parent involvement and support
18:28 - Accessibility and affordability in tennis
23:48 - Preparing kids for competition
26:07 - Coach and parent alignment
27:47 - Keeping tennis enjoyable
38:59 - Growth of pickleball and other racket sports
44:26 - Prioritizing fun and long-term engagement

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🎙️ Unlocking College Tennis Recruiting with Ivan Yatsuk

In this episode, we sit down with former Division 1 player and entrepreneur Ivan Yatsuk to break down what it really takes to navigate the college tennis recruiting process.

If you’re a parent trying to guide your child…
a player with college tennis on your mind…
or a coach looking to better support your athletes…

This conversation gives you a clear look at how recruiting actually works today… and how technology is changing the game.

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If you’re serious about playing college tennis, we highly recommend booking a free consultation call directly through their website.

It’s a great way to get clarity on where you stand… and what your next steps should be.

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Ivan shares his journey from high-level player to building a platform designed to help athletes get recruited more efficiently… and more effectively.

• How Ivan went from college tennis player to building a recruiting platform
• Why recruiting is one of the most important (and misunderstood) parts of tennis development
• How tools like UTR (Universal Tennis Rating) impact opportunities
• What college tennis is really like behind the scenes
• How social media and NIL are starting to influence recruiting
• Where tennis is heading… and how players can stay ahead

(00:00) Introduction to Ivan and his tennis background
(02:38) Growing up with tennis in Florida
(04:46) Moving from Belarus and early development
(06:30) Recruiting journey… University of South Florida and Northwestern University
(07:35) Advice for players going through recruiting
(10:08) Inside Division 1 tennis
(11:24) Why college tennis matters long term
(12:42) College vs professional Futures level
(13:50) Team culture and environment
(15:44) Memorable moments as a player
(16:31) Transitioning between programs
(17:30) Balancing academics and tennis
(18:24) Challenges like travel and schedule
(24:26) Building Recruited Pro
(29:13) Technology’s role in recruiting
(32:28) NIL and social media impact
(36:20) Expanding beyond tennis
(40:11) Rankings and recruiting strategy
(42:48) Technology’s impact on development
(43:33) The future of tennis

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Growing up in tennis isn’t always a straight path… it’s a journey filled with highs, challenges, and lessons that shape you far beyond the court.

In this episode of the SMART Tennis™ Podcast, we sit down with David to explore what it really takes to pursue the game at a high level… from the excitement of competition to the realities of injuries, pressure, and burnout along the way.

We dive into the often overlooked side of player development…
the mental and physical toll that tennis can take…
and the importance of finding balance between pushing forward and knowing when to step back.

David shares personal experiences that highlight resilience, self-awareness, and the value of listening to your body… lessons that every player, parent, and coach can learn from.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the demands of sport… or wondered how to support a young athlete through the ups and downs… this is a conversation worth hearing.

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If you're in the Wilmington area and looking for guidance, training, or a positive introduction to the game, David is doing a great job working with players and families locally.

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If you’re a parent, player, or coach looking to approach tennis in a more positive, sustainable, and effective way… you’re in the right place.

Follow along, share with a tennis family, and help us continue growing the game the right way.