Episodes

  • Savoring Your Lovemaking

    Savoring Your Lovemaking
    Apr 9 2026
    What does sex that isn't mostly about orgasm look like? What does it mean to really savor your lovemaking? Slide your chair up to our (bistro) table this week and let's discuss! Sponsor Every Love Intimates has a great Date Night Subscription box and also sells quality lingerie and single-night date boxes. Check them out! From the Bible For your Maker is your husband— the Lord Almighty is his name— the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth. Isaiah 54:5 I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion. Hosea 2:19 "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32 Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Psalm 127:3 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. John 10:10 (ESV) But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 Resources What Are the Real Purposes of Sex? - Hot, Holy & HumorousEpisode 254: From Passion to Connection (Quickie)Episode 114: Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual IntimacyThe Four Horsemen: Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling | The Gottman InstituteCouples Recovery and FANOS Check-in – Bethesda WorkshopsMy Favorite Feeling During Sex (And It's Not Orgasm) - Hot, Holy & HumorousForeplay – WebinarTROJAN Extended Pleasure Condoms | AmazonDurex Performax Intense Natural Rubber Latex Condoms | AmazonExploring Exercise for Premature Ejaculation (including the pause-squeeze technique) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    27 mins
  • Quick Repair Restores Connection (Quickie)

    Quick Repair Restores Connection (Quickie)
    Apr 2 2026

    This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with a tip to restore emotional connection and strengthen sexual intimacy. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 mins
  • Porn-Free But Now ED, How to Move During Sex & Feeling Semiconscious After Orgasm (Listener Questions), with Julie Sibert

    Porn-Free But Now ED, How to Move During Sex & Feeling Semiconscious After Orgasm (Listener Questions), with Julie Sibert
    Mar 26 2026
    With special guest Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage, we tackle listener questions about erectile dysfunction, moving during sex, and feeling semiconscious after orgasm. Sponsor Aldrich Ministries is passionate about helping couples transform their marriages from surviving to thriving. They offer individual and couples coaching through convenient online video from the comfort of your own home. Regain hope and find healing with the Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network. From the Bible I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman. Job 31:1 I will conduct the affairs of my house with a blameless heart. I will not look with approval on anything that is vile. Psalm 103:2b–3a You ask, "Why?" It is because the Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. Has not the one God made you? You belong to him in body and spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth. Malachi 2:14–15 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Colossians 3:5 The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13 I have come to my garden—my sister, my bride. I gather my myrrh with my spices. I eat my honeycomb with my honey. I drink my wine with my milk. Eat, friends! Drink, be intoxicated with love! Song of Songs 5:1 (HCSB) Resources Intimacy In Marriage - Julie Sibert's site10 Symptoms of Porn Addiction Withdrawal (And How to Manage Them) | Covenant EyesEpisode 154: Why We're Against Porn and EroticaThe Samson SocietyThe Sarah SocietyStrong Wives - Coaching with Bonny BurnsHope for Wives Podcast (Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal)Christian-friendly Sex PositionsHow To Tips Archives - Hot, Holy & HumorousHot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God's Design by J. Parker (Signed) - ON SALE FOR $5 IN CONTIGUOUS USLiberator Wedge Sex Pillow Positioning Aid | Married DanceEpisode 215: Kegels and Sexual Pleasure (Quickie) - Sex Chat for Christian WivesEpisode 219: Kegels and Climax (Quickie) - Sex Chat for Christian WivesThe Orgasm Page | Intimacy in MarriageUnlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens by Bonny Logsdon Burns Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    25 mins
  • Dealing with Nonsexual Baggage (Quickie)

    Dealing with Nonsexual Baggage (Quickie)
    Mar 19 2026

    This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about dealing with nonsexual baggage that affects your sex life. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

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  • How Sex Changes As You Age

    How Sex Changes As You Age
    Mar 13 2026
    With Chris, Bonny, and J all here, we address the ways sex can change due to aging, how you can respond, and what younger listeners can do to prepare for age-related changes. Sponsor Every Love Intimates has a great Date Night Subscription box and also sells quality lingerie and single-night date boxes. Check them out! From the Bible Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding? Job 12:12 Even to your old age and gray hairs I am he, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you. Isaiah 46:4 Resources Episode 4: Stress and Sex (note: the audio quality of our early episodes was not as good)Help For Vaginal Dryness • Bonny's Oysterbed7An Embarrassing Post about Female Sexual Dysfunction (Plus 5 Tips!) | The Forgiven WifeDealing with Vulvovaginal Atrophy without Hormones | The Forgiven WifeCan Daily Arousal Help with Vulvovaginal Atrophy? | The Forgiven WifeStruggling with Sex in Marriage? Here's What To Do First. - Hot, Holy & HumorousEpisode 231: Choosing a Lube (Quickie)Cold-pressed, Virgin Coconut Oil | AmazonLiberator Wedge Sex Pillow Positioning Aid | Married DanceGood Clean Love BioNude Ultra Sensitive Personal Lubricant | AmazonA Wife's Breasts Have History! | The Forgiven WifeGetting Older, Having Sex - Hot, Holy & HumorousPillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. ParkerSexual Clarity for Christian Women • Strong Wives Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    35 mins
  • How's the Hugging? (Quickie)

    How's the Hugging? (Quickie)
    Mar 5 2026

    This week's quickie is from J Parker about the benefits of hugging in your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 mins
  • When Same-Sex Arousal Enters Marriage, with Vicki Tiede

    When Same-Sex Arousal Enters Marriage, with Vicki Tiede
    Feb 27 2026
    With special guest Vicki Tiede, we address a reality for some Christian heterosexual marriages, same-sex arousal or attraction. What does it mean? And what can you do? Sponsors Aldrich Ministries is passionate about helping couples transform their marriages from surviving to thriving. They offer individual and couples coaching through convenient online video from the comfort of your own home. Regain hope and find healing with the Aldrich Ministries Coaching Network. From the Bible So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 "But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Mark 10:6–8 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. Romans 12:2 Resources Life Renovation Counseling & Coaching - Mike & Vicki TiedeCourageous Hearts Group w/Vicki TiedeWhen Your Husband Is Addicted to Pornography: Healing Your Wounded Heart by Vicki TiedeSexual Clarity for Christian Women w/Bonny BurnsSame-Sex Attraction—Confusion To Clarity (free download from Vicki)Are We Naturally Monogamous? - Hot, Holy & HumorousPillow Talk: 40 Conversations about Sex for Married Couples by J. ParkerVirgin Bride Guidebook: Wedding Night Answers by Bonny Logsdon Burns Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We'd love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on Patreon. You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: https://patreon.com/ForChristianWives If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate here. If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    39 mins
  • From Passion to Connection (Quickie)

    From Passion to Connection (Quickie)
    Feb 20 2026

    This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about shifting your focus from passion to connection. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 mins