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Kerry Blackmer (@kl_blackmer) is a five-time full Ironman finisher and a mom. In this episode, she opens up about what it really takes to keep showing up — through injury, motherhood, and everything in between.
She started running marathons at 22 because someone told her she couldn't. She came to triathlon through friendship, trained through pregnancy, and never really stopped. Then one afternoon at her daughter's elementary school, racing a group of kids, her hamstring snapped off the bone. Just like that, the goal changed.
What happened next says everything about who Kerry is. She didn't spiral. She showed up to the gym, got stronger than ever, and found gratitude in a body that was healing. When she came back to the pool, she came back with the same quiet certainty she brings to everything, including the adaptive athletes she pushes across finish lines every single weekend.
We talk about training around a full life, what turning 50 quietly liberates, and why her daughter's handmade bracelet means more to her than any Ironman medal. And yes, we talk a little about guilt too, because what mother athlete doesn't?
Kerry is the Frederick County Chapter Leader for Athletes Serving Athletes (ASA) — a nonprofit that empowers people with limited mobility to train and race alongside volunteer runners. If you're in Frederick County, Maryland and want to get involved, the link is in the show notes.
"I have to remind myself that it's okay to be someone outside of being a mom. Being a mom is one part of me — it's not everything." — Kerry Blackmer
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