The majority of kids today say they want to be influencers. What happens when that shows up in your own home?

When your child isn’t just playing or performing… but actively trying to be seen, followed, and validated online?

In this episode, a mom of a 10-year-old shares a tension so many parents feel but don’t always say out loud:

I’m proud of her confidence… and I’m scared of what she’s chasing.

Dr. Sheryl unpacks what’s really driving this desire to be “famous,” why it makes so much sense developmentally, and how to respond without shutting your child down — or leaving them unprotected.

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Eye rolls. Talking back. That tone that seems to come out of nowhere.

A lot of parents hit this moment around age 9 or 10 — when their once easygoing kid suddenly feels harder to reach, harder to guide, and harder to understand.

In this episode, Dr. Sheryl talks with a mom named Anna who’s navigating this exact shift with her daughter. Alongside the attitude and pushback, her daughter is also dealing with anxiety — leaving Anna wondering:

Are these things connected? And how do I respond in a way that actually helps?

Together, they unpack what’s really going on underneath this stage — why kids start pushing back, how anxiety can show up as irritability, and why this phase isn’t a sign that something is going wrong… but that something new is developing.

You’ll walk away with a powerful reframe — and practical tools to stay steady, set boundaries, and build connection during this in-between stage.

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You finally feel like you’ve figured out your kid.

You know what works! You feel connected! Things make sense!

And then… something shifts.

Suddenly your child is making choices that don’t add up. They’re lying, cutting corners, or acting in ways that feel completely unlike them. And you’re left wondering:
Am I losing influence? Should I step in more? Or am I about to become too controlling?

In today’s episode, Dr. Sheryl sits down with a mom navigating exactly this moment with her 11-year-old son — a child who had always been “easy”… until he wasn’t.

Together, they unpack what’s really happening underneath these confusing behaviors — including:

• Why kids this age start making choices that don’t make sense
• How shame (not “badness”) drives more problematic behavior
• The difference between discipline that controls vs. discipline that teaches
• Why “good kids” can suddenly seem like they’re going off track
• And a simple phrase that can completely change your conversations: “Help me understand”

This episode is about one of the hardest — and most important — parenting shifts:
Letting go of control, while staying deeply connected.

New episodes drop every Wednesday; follow the show on Apple or Spotify so you don't miss a single one!

Follow Dr. Sheryl on Instagram: @drsherylatgoodinside

Get the Good Inside app: Good Inside Teen

Thank you to our partners for making this episode of The In-Between Years possible!

• Equip: Learn about Equip's at-home eating disorder treatment at equip.health/goodinside.

Follow Dr. Sheryl on Instagram

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