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The Powerful Man Show

The Powerful Man Show

By: Tim Matthews & Doug Holt
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The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information. Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • Breaking Free: Overcoming Fear and Finding Leadership in Relationships [Revisit]

    Breaking Free: Overcoming Fear and Finding Leadership in Relationships [Revisit]
    Mar 28 2026

    Episode #1115

    A lot of guys say they feel stuck. But when you really look at it, it is not that you do not know what to do. You do. You are just not doing it.

    In this episode, we get into what is actually behind that feeling. The hesitation. The overthinking. The fear of making the wrong move or making things worse.

    We talk about why so many men avoid hard conversations and how you end up giving up leadership without even realizing it. The problem is, staying in that middle ground is what keeps you stuck.

    We walk through how to break that pattern. How to stop sitting on the fence and start making decisions again. Even small ones. There are a couple simple ways to move forward right away. One is learning how to act before your brain talks you out of it. Another is getting honest about what you are actually afraid of and calling it out.

    If your relationship feels off, if you have been avoiding a conversation, or if you just feel like you have lost your edge a bit, this episode will help you reset and start leading again.

    Because at the end of the day, the guy who moves forward is not the one who has it all figured out. It is the one who decides to act anyway.

    If you want to get clear on where things are actually breaking down in your relationship and what to do next, go grab the free training here:
    https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales
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    24 mins
  • Establishing Firm Boundaries: Transforming Relationships from Friction to Fulfillment [Revisit]

    Establishing Firm Boundaries: Transforming Relationships from Friction to Fulfillment [Revisit]
    Mar 24 2026
    Episode #1113 Most men struggle to set boundaries because they fear the friction it might cause in their marriage. They mistake being a "Mr. Nice Guy" for being a good husband, but as Coach Chris and Doug Holt discuss, there is nothing unsexier to a woman than a man who acts like a doormat . When you allow your wife to speak to you disrespectfully or violate your financial agreements without consequences, you aren't being "patient" you are training her to lose respect for you . Real boundaries are immovable and firm; when they are malleable, they create confusion and a total lack of trust in your leadership . In this episode, you will learn the critical difference between a boundary and an agreement . While agreements can be negotiated through dialogue, a boundary is a line in the sand like infidelity or character assassination that you are willing to "die on a hill" for . Doug and Chris share how to stop seeking external validation from your wife and instead build the self-love and grounded masculinity required to hold your ground . You'll hear real-world examples of how setting a firm boundary can actually lead to deep emotional surrender and safety for your wife, even if the initial conversation feels uncomfortable . Setting boundaries isn't about control or threats; it's about sharing your experience in a way that no one can deny . By using "Dad energy" calm, firm, and loving you can communicate your needs without triggering a defensive war . If you are ready to stop being gaslit or emotionally manipulated and want to start showing up as the leader your family is waiting for, this episode provides the step-by-step roadmap to reclaiming your respect and your marriage . If you've realized that you've trained the people in your life to treat you poorly and you're ready to start on your "side of the street," we have a proven methodology to help you lead. Stop toiling with the same arguments and learn how to bring back the love and admiration that's been missing. You can access our free video training to see exactly where your relationship stands by visiting https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales .
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    29 mins
  • Unlocking Confidence: Elevate Your Sexual Market Value [Revisit]

    Unlocking Confidence: Elevate Your Sexual Market Value [Revisit]
    Mar 26 2026

    Episode #1114

    Have you ever wondered what you would trade for on the open market? In this episode, Doug Holt and Coach Chris discuss the concept of Sexual Market Value (SMV) and why it is a critical metric for every man, especially those who are married. SMV isn't just about physical looks it's a combination of self-confidence, grounded masculinity, and the respect you have for yourself.

    Many men in their 40s find themselves in "sexless marriages," having traded their edge for comfort and routine. Doug and Chris break down how to reverse this trend by implementing daily routines like the Alpha Rise and Shine, seeking honest feedback from a brotherhood of men, and prioritizing purpose over all else. They challenge you to be raw and honest about where you rank on a scale of 1 to 10 and provide actionable steps to move that needle today.

    It's time to stop letting yourself go and start showing up as the man your wife admires and your business requires. Learn how small wins in your personal hygiene, fitness, and mindset can lead to a total transformation in your marriage and your life.

    If you want a simple way to figure out where you stand and what to focus on next go grab the free training here:
    https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

    It'll walk you through exactly what's working, what's not, and how to start turning things around.
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    25 mins
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Tim and Doug are extremely entertaining. They have amazing insights in how to perform better in many facets of your life, starting with work on self. Highly recommended if you're a male business leader who finds other things in your life (like your relationship with your wife or significant other) falling by the wayside.

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The Powerful Man Show" with Doug Holt and Tim Matthews has been a game-changer for me. Each episode is filled with meaningful discussions and actionable advice on personal and professional growth. Doug and Tim's authenticity and depth make the podcast both engaging and educational. They cover a broad spectrum of life's challenges with empathy and expertise, making every listener feel understood and inspired. If you're looking to improve your life in a holistic way, this is the podcast for you. Thanks, Doug and Tim, for such a motivational and insightful show!

Transformative and engaging -highly recommended

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Doug,Tim and the TPM team are a gift to men truly trying to navigate their world. The insights from living their message and the action they inspire create the road map for living your best life. So grateful to be a part of this community. Listen then dive in, the water is cold, just how it should be!

The way for men to lead and live their best life

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Love this show and love participating too. These great men have created such enormous value for men who are somewhat lost in relationships. This movement is changing the world. There is work to be done....watch this space.

We need men like this

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So much to learn about how men are missing the mark in today’s modern relationships with themselves, their spouse and their children.

Perfect for men looking to make a healthy change!

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