In this episode of The Psyche Behind the Physique, Maddy is joined by coach and HYROX athlete Doug Stossmeister for a raw, powerful conversation on identity, resilience, and what it actually takes to change your life.

Doug shares what it was like growing up in extreme scarcity in rural Alaska—where survival wasn’t a mindset, it was reality. From driving boats to school to navigating food insecurity, his upbringing shaped a deeply ingrained belief: everything is on me.

But what happens when that mindset starts holding you back?

Together, Maddy and Doug unpack how early environments shape our relationship with food, discipline, self-worth, and even our bodies. They explore the hidden patterns that keep women stuck—not just in their fitness journeys, but in careers, relationships, and identities that no longer align.

This episode dives into:

• Scarcity vs. abundance mindset in health and life
• Why so many women stay stuck in cycles of burnout and restriction
• The fear of becoming someone new (and why it keeps you stagnant)
• The emotional and mental toll of chasing physique goals without alignment
• What it really means to “choose happy”—and why it’s not selfish
• How to navigate major life pivots, even when you’re terrified

If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you are and who you know you could be… this conversation will hit deep.

Because transformation isn’t just physical—it’s identity.

⚡ After coaching hundreds of women through fat loss, hormone healing, and body recomposition… I can confidently say: it’s not just about doing more—it’s about doing what’s right for your body. If you’re ready for that level of support, apply for 1:1 coaching below.

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📲 DM @madsmichiefitness with your biggest takeaway or topic requests and connect with Doug here