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Unlabeled Love

Unlabeled Love

By: Violet S and McCartnie Rose
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A supportive, judgment-free podcast for spouses of gender expansive people, such as crossdressers—where love meets lipstick and real talk. Through honest conversations, shared stories, and expert insights, we explore identity, connection, and acceptance with compassion, humor, and heart. You’re not alone—and every relationship deserves respect, authenticity, and a little sparkle.Violet S and McCartnie Rose Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • 011 Healthy Boundaries
    Mar 25 2026

    This episode focuses on setting boundaries in relationships where one partner is gender expansive, including why boundaries matter and how they relate to trust and comfort levels. They describe physical, emotional, time, and material boundaries. They stress that boundaries should be specific, communicated calmly with “I” statements, and can evolve over time as acceptance grows.

    They also discuss healthy versus unhealthy partner responses, warn against guilt, manipulation, lying, or ignoring boundaries, and recommend individual or couples therapy with clinicians familiar with gender and relationship issues. They close by reminding listeners to prioritize empathy without losing one’s own identity.

    You can contact us:

    • email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.com
    • Instagram - ⁠UnlabeledLove⁠
    • Facebook - Violet S. Lee & McCartnie Rose



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    35 mins
  • 010 Fearless and Fabulous
    Mar 11 2026

    Violet and McCartney discuss practical packing and presentation tips for cruising, including mix-and-match outfits, comfortable shoes, sweaters for cool evenings, shapewear, wigs, and nails. They address strategies for building confidence on board, including choosing quieter pool times. The conversation also focuses on encouraging spouses to join for community, self-care, and mutual enjoyment, and on examining whether hesitation stems from personal boundaries or fear of others’ opinions. They close by stating plans to see listeners at the Keystone Conference (March 18–22).

    You can contact us:

    • email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.com
    • Instagram - UnlabeledLove
    • Facebook - Violet S. Lee & McCartnie Rose



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    37 mins
  • 009-Pros and Cons
    Feb 18 2026

    In this episode, Violet and McCartney explore the pros and cons of being the significant other of a gender expansive person. Specifically, how it affects them, emphasizing that experiences vary by individual and relationship. They describe key pros such as enhanced communication, deeper intimacy and trust, creative self-expression, community connections, and even shared fashion tips. They also cover challenges and cons, including identity struggles for the partner, social stigma, financial strain, and conflicts over borrowing clothes and limited closet space.

    You can contact us:

    • email - unlabeled.love.journey@gmail.com
    • Instagram - Unlabeledlove.podcast
    • Facebook - violet S. Lee & McCartnie Rose

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    34 mins
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