Pain can show up even when scans look “fine,” and severe arthritis can exist with little to no pain - so what should you do when the usual explanations don’t add up?

Holly puts Dr. Megan on the hot seat for a listener-driven lightning round, tackling five common questions people ask when they’re trying to make sense of chronic pain. Learn how to think about medication as a tool (and when it may be a bridge rather than the full plan), why “pain doesn’t equal damage” matters for recovery, and how to talk with partners, friends, or clinicians who focus only on the body when you’re trying to address the whole picture.

The conversation also covers aging and pain - what’s normal, what’s not inevitable, and how to decide between continuing to pursue solutions versus practicing acceptance. To make the biopsychosocial approach more practical, Dr. Megan shares a simple place to start: tracking flare-ups with context (stress, thoughts, people, situations) to spot patterns your nervous system may be reacting to.

Season one wraps with key takeaways and a preview of what’s coming next.

Links to interesting things from this episode:

• Joshua Pate’s Research on Pain
• “You Can Heal Your life” by Louise Hay
• Bessel van der Kolk books
• “The Way Out: A Revolutionary, Scientifically Proven Approach to Healing Chronic Pain” by Alan Gordon and Alon Ziv
• John E. Sarno books

If you’ve ever wondered why surgery can “fix” the structure but not always fix the pain, you’re not alone.

Dr. Megan Steele and Holly Osborne explore what really influences surgical outcomes, especially for people living with chronic pain. Join them as they break down why pain isn’t purely mechanical, how your nervous system’s threat detection can shape recovery (even under anesthesia), and why scar tissue, stress, and past medical experiences can change the healing process.

You’ll also hear practical ways to prepare before surgery - like prehab, planning for the hospital experience, and using calming strategies to dial down stress - plus realistic post-op considerations many people aren’t warned about, including digestion issues, brain fog, and why early movement matters. Along the way, they share a simple framework for evaluating newer procedures and what to ask a surgeon before agreeing to an approach that may not have a long track record.

Helpful for anyone weighing surgery, supporting someone through it, or trying to make sense of why “successful” operations don’t always lead to relief.

Links to interesting things from this episode:

1. Waddell Signs

In this episode, we discuss a personal experience involving violent assault, injury, and subsequent surgeries. Listener discretion is advised. If these topics are difficult for you, you may wish to skip this episode or listen when you feel supported.

If you’ve had pain for years, you’ve probably been asked to summarize your whole story in minutes, and then felt the conversation rush straight to tests, protocols, and a “game plan.” That’s often where trust breaks, important details get missed, and you walk out feeling unseen.

Here, you’ll hear what changes when the first goal isn’t to solve everything, but to create enough safety for the real story to emerge. Holly shares what it’s like to carry a long medical history alongside trauma, shame, and the pressure to “hold it together” in clinical settings. Dr. Megan Steele explains why open-ended questions, uninterrupted storytelling, and clear validation can be the difference between symptom management and meaningful progress - especially with persistent pain.

You’ll come away with practical ways to:

1. Prepare for appointments when your history feels complicated or hard to tell
2. Ask for what you need (privacy, time, clarity) without it feeling difficult
3. Notice when a provider is building trust or performing expertise
4. Understand how trauma, stress, and beliefs can amplify pain over time
5. Think about care as a partnership, not a performance or a test you can fail

Links to interesting things from this episode:

1. Marc R. Safran, MD
2. “You Can Heal Your Life” by Louise Hay

Did you know researchers are teaching kids about pain before they experience it - and it might prevent chronic pain in adulthood?

Between 20-25% of children with acute injuries develop chronic pain, but they're not just small adults. Their brains are more plastic, more vulnerable, and remarkably more responsive to intervention. Dr. Megan Steele and Holly Osborne explore what makes pediatric pain different, why some kids get stuck in chronic pain cycles, and what parents and caregivers can do about it.

You'll learn about the two critical periods in childhood brain development (ages 2-3 and 12-13) when kids are most vulnerable to pain becoming chronic, and why hormone shifts during puberty play a bigger role than we thought. Discover how sensory sensitivity in childhood predicts widespread pain later, and why having just two caring adults outside the home can buffer kids against developing chronic pain.

Holly and Dr. Megan discuss practical strategies for parents - including how to talk about your own chronic pain with your children without passing patterns along, when to normalize pain versus when to take it seriously, and why pain literacy education in schools shows remarkable promise.

Whether you're a parent, work with children, or experienced chronic pain as a kid yourself, this conversation offers hope and actionable insights for breaking the cycle before it starts.

Links to interesting things from this episode:

1. Joshua W. Pate, website - with links to the book series mentioned by Dr. Megan
2. Adriaan Louw's website, "Why you hurt"
3. ACEs Aware - organization educating about and screening for Adverse Childhood Experiences
4. "Adolescence"

Anyone selling you a magic bullet for chronic pain is either lying or doesn't understand how pain actually works. But here's what does work: your brain's ability to literally rewire itself.

Holly and Dr. Megan Steele explore the growing body of research showing that mindfulness, breathwork, and visualization aren't just "woo-woo" practices - they create measurable changes in your brain that reduce pain. You'll discover why chronic pain is more about threat detection than tissue damage, and how shifting your nervous system into a state of safety can provide real relief.

Dr. Megan breaks down the science behind techniques that actually work, including:

1. Why breathwork is the easiest place to start (and how it stimulates your vagus nerve)
2. What happens in your brain during meditation (hint: different areas light up on MRI scans)
3. How to use "associative learning" to trigger safety responses in your body
4. Why suppressing pain sensations backfires and what to do instead
5. The surprising connection between completing stress cycles and pain relief

No false promises here. These practices take commitment - but the side effect profile is zero, and the science backs them up. Whether you're frustrated with traditional approaches or looking to add evidence-based tools to your pain management toolkit, this conversation offers practical starting points.

As Holly reminds us: as long as you're breathing, you can change your brain. Therefore, you can change your pain.

Links to interesting things from this episode:

1. Fadel Zeidan, UC San Diego

Why do women make up 70% of chronic pain sufferers? The answer involves more than just biology. Dr. Megan and Holly examine how hormones, pain thresholds, and social conditioning create vastly different pain experiences for men and women.

You'll discover:

1. Why pain thresholds change dramatically at puberty and menopause
2. How testosterone acts as a buffer and estrogen fluctuations trigger pain
3. Insights about that viral study where men couldn't last through simulated labor pain
4. Why menstrual pain is chronically underreported (and how that leads to worse outcomes)
5. How memory and pain are linked through estrogen receptors in the brain
6. What happens to transgender individuals' pain perception during hormone therapy

Holly and Dr. Megan also tackle the social costs of pain - from women hesitating to report debilitating cramps to men feeling pressured to "gut it out" - and why finding a practitioner who asks about your full pain experience matters.

The good news? Pain is malleable, and there are evidence-based approaches that can help.

Links to interesting things from this episode:

1. Dr. Jen Gunter, website

Why do two people with the same injury have completely different pain journeys - and what does a zip code have to do with it?

Today we dig into the often-overlooked social side of persistent pain: the way income, work conditions, food access, relationships, and even cultural expectations can ramp pain up or help dial it down.

Dr. Megan and Holly explore how:

1. Socioeconomic status and access to care change the way pain shows up and sticks around
2. Food deserts, chronic stress, and unstable housing contribute to inflammation and nervous system sensitization
3. Social support, community, and a sense of belonging act as real “medicine” for the brain
4. Work satisfaction, toxic bosses, and job insecurity influence chronic low back pain and recovery
5. Simple practices - like visualization, “spoon” or gas-tank metaphors, and clearer communication with friends, partners, and coworkers - can make it easier to live your life while living with pain

You’ll come away with language to explain your limits to others, new ways to think about your own pain story, and practical, low-cost tools for building more safety, connection, and support into your everyday life

Links to interesting things from this episode:

1. Dr. Megan’s Instagram
2. “Integrating multidimensional data analytics for precision diagnosis of chronic low back pain”
3. “Navigating the biopsychosocial landscape: A systematic review on the association between social support and chronic pain”
4. “Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life With the Heart of a Buddha” by Tara Brach
5. Étoile

What if the pain you feel long after an injury has “healed” isn’t a sign that your body is broken, but that your nervous system is stuck in protection mode?

Dr. Megan and Holly break down what’s happening in the brain and body when pain lingers, scans look “normal,” and daily life starts to shrink. They explore how chronic pain and emotions are tightly linked, and why anxiety, depression, shame, and even hyper-empathy so often travel with long-term pain.

You’ll hear about the shift from acute to chronic pain, how the brain’s “pain map” can smudge and spread, and why pain can move around the body even when there’s no clear structural damage. They unpack the boom-and-bust cycle of pushing hard on “good” days and crashing afterward, the heavy toll of masking and “performing okay” for others, and how shame and hopelessness can quietly take root alongside physical symptoms.

Most importantly, Dr. Megan offers practical, science-backed ways to begin lightening the emotional load of chronic pain:

1. Understanding functional vs. structural pain and why that distinction matters for your recovery
2. Recognizing how anxiety and depression can amplify pain - without blaming yourself
3. Using small, realistic goals to build evidence that pain and depression are “lying” about what’s possible
4. Reframing flare-ups as part of a non-linear healing path rather than proof of failure
5. Leveraging simple tools like movement, breath work, and gratitude to gently retrain the brain

If you’ve ever felt like your scans are “fine” but your life is not, or wondered whether your emotional struggle around pain really “counts,” this conversation offers clarity, validation, and a grounded sense of hope that change is still possible.

Links to interesting things from this episode:

1. “No Mud, No Lotus: The Art of Transforming Suffering” by Thich Nhat Hanh