Episodes

  • Finally, a System for the Domestic Load

    Finally, a System for the Domestic Load
    Mar 31 2026
    The endless tasks at home aren’t small—they’re the hidden strain on most relationships, quietly building stress, frustration, and resentment. It’s no secret that women often shoulder the majority of invisible work, from meal planning to school schedules to household upkeep, while trying to juggle careers and parenting. In honor of Women’s History Month, I’m talking about things that matter to women—and this is at the top of the list. Eve Rodsky, creator of Fair Play, joins me to explain how to break the cycle of overwhelm, take full ownership of tasks, and share the load without guilt, nagging, or resentment. She walks through a practical system for boundaries, accountability, and communication that restores trust, strengthens partnerships, and makes running a home fair—and yes, actually possible—for real families. Listen in to learn more : [00:00] The Blueberries That Broke the Camel's Back [02:00] Domestic Load – Invisible, Unequal, Unsustainable [09:19] Run Your Home Like a World-Class Organization [11:57] The Tooth Fairy Redemption Arc [23:19] Minimum Standard of Care – Goodbye Weaponized Incompetence In this episode, we are digging into how to build healthy relationships through clear boundaries, effective systems, and strong communication, why communication about the domestic load can feel when when it is important, the two essential elements of a successful relationship, the value of having tough conversations when emotions are low and thinking is clear, and how to start the conversation with your partner about sharing the domestic load. Connect with Paula on Instagram Get Paula's personal newsletter THE CARRY™ ALL NEWSLETTER by and for working moms Paula’s Favorite Protein Powder 15% off Connect with Eve Rodsky Watch the FairPlay Documentary Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    31 mins
  • Why Equal Partnership Is Possible—Even With Kids and Careers

    Why Equal Partnership Is Possible—Even With Kids and Careers
    Mar 24 2026
    Being equal partners isn’t just a nice idea—it’s how marriage and family actually work. John and I share what it took to get here: putting careers, expectations, and traditional roles on the table, figuring out who owns what at home, and finally treating each other like true teammates. In honor of Women’s History Month, we talk about what equal partnership really looks like, why it matters for women and families, and how it changes the way you show up—for your spouse, your kids, and yourself. Life Happens. Let’s Talk About It. Listen in to learn more : 0:00:00] – Spousal Equity Is a Unicorn—But Possible [0:05:44] – How the 1950s Broke Both Men and Women [0:10:10] – Following Her Career, Not the Script [0:21:07] – The Real Fight: Who Does What at Home? [0:18:54] – Ditch ‘Breadwinner’—We’re Just Partners In this episode, we are diving into the importance of being a supportive partner, supporting your partner in career changes, how taking risks together can strengthen your relationship, the impact of traditional gender roles on men and women, and a proven method for sharing household responsibilities that has been a lifesaver. LINKS Connect with Paula on Instagram Get Paula's personal newsletter THE CARRY™ ALL NEWSLETTER by and for working moms Paula’s Favorite Protein Powder 15% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    31 mins
  • Why I Finally Went to Therapy

    Why I Finally Went to Therapy
    Mar 17 2026
    Life has a way of catching up with you. I’ve lost both of my parents. And last year, after the loss of my mom, I found myself in a really dark place. I was still showing up for life—but underneath it all, something wasn’t right. John (my husband) was the one who finally said it: it might be time to talk to someone. So I did. In this conversation, John and I talk about why I went to therapy, the stigma that still surrounds it, and what happens when we avoid processing what life hands us. Because if you don’t process grief, you carry it. Most of us are dragging around a U-Haul of unprocessed pain without even realizing it—and it eventually shows up somewhere: in our moods, our reactions, our relationships, even our performance. In honor of Women’s History Month, this episode highlights a topic that matters deeply for women: making space to process loss, grief, and the pressures we carry every day. We also talk about how to find the right therapist, why therapy isn’t just for when life falls apart, and how it helped me walk through the anniversary of my parents’ deaths. Your body is designed to process what life brings you. But it can’t do that work if we never slow down long enough to face it. Life Happens. Let’s Talk About It. Listen to learn more : [0:00:00] Therapy Isn’t Just for “When Life Falls Apart.” [0:04:19] Midlife, Hormones, and the Hidden Weight of Women’s Grief [0:08:29] How to Actually Find the Right Therapist (and Advocate for Yourself) [0:12:21] Metabolizing Grief: Turning U-Hauls of Pain into Rituals of Remembrance [0:19:58] Therapy as Lifelong Maintenance, Not a One-Time Fix In this episode, we are digging into changing the stigma around therapy, how to find the right therapist and why that matters, the impact of unprocessed emotions, what to expect during your first therapy appointment, practical ways to process grief and loss, being honest about your needs, and the importance of caring for your mental and emotional health. Listen to Paula’s episodes on Grief/Loss: Episode 1, Episode 2, Episode 3, Episode 4 Connect with Paula on Instagram Get Paula's personal newsletter THE CARRY™ ALL NEWSLETTER by and for working moms Paula’s Favorite Protein Powder 15% off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    28 mins
  • GLP-1s: Why I Tried Them, What Really Happened

    GLP-1s: Why I Tried Them, What Really Happened
    Mar 10 2026
    GLP-1s—Ozempic, Wegovy, Zepbound—are everywhere right now. And so is the debate. Some people call it a breakthrough. Others say it’s cheating. So let’s talk about it. In this episode, I’m sharing my personal experience taking a GLP-1 as a 50-year-old woman navigating perimenopause, inflammation, and a body that suddenly stopped responding to all the things that used to work. My CARRY Media colleague Kristen White joins me to ask the questions so many women are asking privately: What are the side effects? Does it actually work? And what happens when you stop? It’s also Women’s History Month, and all March long, we’re talking about the issues that matter to women. No hype. No shame. Just an honest conversation about women’s health—and what I’ve learned so far. Life Happens. Let’s Talk About it. Listen in to learn more : [0:04:58] "GLP-1s Aren’t Cheating—They’re a Tool." [0:05:30] "Doing ‘All the Right Things’ but Still Struggling." [0:14:18] "Slow, Steady Weight Loss and Inflammation Down." [0:19:35] "Muscle Loss Is the Biggest GLP-1 Red Flag." [0:18:30] "Protein and Heavy Lifting Are Non‑Negotiable." In this episode, we are diving into my personal experience with GLP-1s, why I share my experiences publicly, the stigma associated with GLP-1 medications and other weight loss drugs, benefits of GLP-1s in addition to weight loss, negative side effects of GLP-1s, practical ways to balance the risks and benefits of GLP-1 medications, having healthy expectations about weight loss, and two habits to focus on if you use a GLP-1. LINKS Connect with Paula on Instagram Get Paula's personal newsletter THE CARRY™ ALL NEWSLETTER by and for working moms Paula’s Favorite Protein Powder 15% off Connect with Kristen! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    32 mins
  • The Paula Faris Show 2026 Trailer

    The Paula Faris Show 2026 Trailer
    Mar 10 2026
    Welcome to "The Paula Faris Show", where life happens, so let’s talk about it! Join Emmy-award-winning journalist Paula Faris as she brings you candid conversations to help you live your best life. From personal journeys to societal issues, Paula talks to guests from all walks of life. Tune in to explore the unfiltered truths, inspiring moments, and thought-provoking discussions that make us human. It's time to dig deep, laugh, cry, and most importantly, let's talk about it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 min
  • Find Your People: Why Deep Friendship Is a Health Essential

    Find Your People: Why Deep Friendship Is a Health Essential
    Mar 3 2026
    This conversation hit me hard — because of the loneliness so many women quietly carry? It’s real. And you are not alone. The month of March is Women’s History Month, and we’re talking about what truly matters to women. Friendship is at the top of that list. In this conversation with author Jennie Allen, we unpack why so many of us have plenty of acquaintances but still feel deeply disconnected. The research is clear: meaningful friendship isn’t optional — it’s essential to our mental, emotional, and physical health. We talk about why we’ve lost the art of initiation, how to find your people, and what to do if building deep friendships feels harder than it should. Life Happens. Let’s Talk About It. Listen in to learn more: [0:00:00] Humans Are Starving for Connection, Not Convenience [0:02:07] We’re “Connected” Yet Lonely: The Friendship Gap for Women [0:09:58] Loneliness Is More Dangerous Than Drugs or Alcohol [0:16:43] Your Inner Circle: Why You Only Need 3–5 Deep Friends [0:23:38] You Can Be Lonely, or You Can Initiate—Those Are Your Options In this episode, we are digging into the growing loneliness epidemic, how the quality of your friendships affects every aspect of your health, the biggest barriers to building meaningful friendships, the difference between having a village and having an inner circle (and why we need both!), five different types of friends you need in your life, three qualities to look for in a friend, how to handle conflict in friendship, and healthy boundaries in relationships with friends and family. Connect with Paula on Instagram THE CARRY™ ALL NEWSLETTER by and for working moms Jennie Allen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    39 mins
  • From Knowing to Doing: Making Love Languages Work

    From Knowing to Doing: Making Love Languages Work
    Feb 24 2026
    This is the practical episode. Now it’s time to take everything we’ve learned in this series with Dr. Chapman—and actually use it. After breaking down what the love languages are (and what they aren’t), Dr. Gary Chapman joins me and John in the final conversation of our Love Languages series, to show us how to put them into practice in real life. We’ll break down what he calls the dialects of each love language—the specific ways love is expressed, received, and often misunderstood. Because knowing the language isn’t enough if you’re speaking it in a way that doesn’t land. We also dig into how love languages show up with kids, and how to recognize what our children are actually asking for. If you’ve ever thought, I’m trying—but it’s not working, this is where it finally clicks. Life Happens. Let’s talk about it. Listen in to learn more [0:00:00] Why This New Love Languages Book Exists: Dialects + Personality [0:02:53] Dialects Turn Generic Love Languages into a Personal “Master Class” [0:06:03] Words of Affirmation: Encouragement, Appreciation, and Compliments [0:09:34] Quality Time, Gifts, and Acts of Service: Getting the Dialect Right [0:19:40] Physical Touch and Acts of Service: Customizing Love for Your Family In this episode, we are digging into the personal ways people give and receive love, the difference between encouragement, appreciation, and compliments, practical ways to spend quality time with your partner, different kinds of gifts loved ones may enjoy, what acts of service and physical touch look like in different contexts, and why it is important to know the dialect of your partner’s love language. LINKS Get my personal newsletter and win a copy of Dr Chapman’s new book Take the Love Languages Quiz Take the Premium Assessment Get his new book: The Love Language That Matters Most Connect with Paula on Instagram THE CARRY™ ALL NEWSLETTER by and for working moms Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    32 mins
  • Is Sex Every Man’s Love Language?

    Is Sex Every Man’s Love Language?
    Feb 17 2026
    Sex. Almost every man will say it’s their love language. But Dr. Gary Chapman—the expert behind The Five Love Languages—explains why that’s not quite right, and makes a crucial distinction between physical desire and emotional connection. John and I dig into what this really means for intimacy, unpacking the science behind male vs. female sexual needs and why understanding your partner’s love language can change everything. We also explore how love languages show up in parenting—and how to recognize them in your kids. ⚠️Warning: we go there. Sex, chemistry, and the truths you’ve been too polite to ask about. Listen in to learn more [0:03:26] Sex Isn’t a Love Language [0:07:28] Men’s Bodies, Women’s Emotions [0:08:29] Fill the Love Tank, Fix the Bedroom [0:14:25] Decode Your Kid’s Love Language by Age Four [0:19:24] Mental Load: The Ultimate Intimacy Killer SUMMARY In this episode, we are digging into the distinction between emotional and physiological aspects of sex, the biological reason men desire sex, differences in men and women when it comes to sex, the importance of emotional connection with your partner, meeting the emotional needs of your partner in seasons of stress, and (sharp turn) three ways to know your child’s love language. LINKS Get my personal newsletter and win a copy of Dr. Chapman’s new book Take the Love Languages Quiz Take the Premium Assessment Get his new book: The Love Language That Matters Most Connect with Paula on Instagram THE CARRY™ ALL NEWSLETTER by and for working moms Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    26 mins