This week on These Are Good Days, Lee Ann and Matt are diving into why we’re so obsessed with getting it "right" at the expense of being real. We often treat perfectionism like a suit of armor to dodge criticism or keep anxiety at bay, but in reality, it just shields us from the actual connection and vulnerability we’re wired for. We’re busting the myth that "perfect" people win at life and exploring how showing up as your messy, authentic self is actually the fastest way to get ahead in your relationships. It’s time to stop curating the moment and start actually living in it—because the best days aren't the perfect ones; they’re the ones where you actually show up.

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There are things in life that make us feel rich - and MOST of them have nothing to do with money at all. Sometimes it's a sunny day or a ride in the car with the windows down. Sometimes it's a homemade meal with your family around the table. Sometimes it can even uninterrupted time to read. No matter what, there are moments in life that make us pause and realize how much we truly have. Join us in another episode about what's making us feel rich!

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We are diving into navigating tricky (and sometimes painful) shift of trading your parental authority for an actual friendship with your adult kids. We asked you guys in the These Are Good Days community how you’re navigating these new boundaries, and we’re sharing your real-talk feedback on what’s working and what’s definitely not. From mastering the 80/20 listening rule to avoiding the "help" that feels like a lecture, we’re figuring out how to stop managing our children's lives and start enjoying the people they’ve become. Let's talk together about shifting the authority role in our young children's lives to an ally role where we can root for our adult children.

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If you know anything about us at all, you know a good cup of coffee is important to us - especially “frothy coffee.” Click here to grab some of our These Are Good Days blend coffee - we created this blend and couldn’t love it more!

Also, we have merch! Grab a tshirt, hoodie, baseball cap, or other swag to show your love for the podcast, or just remind yourself that These Are Good Days! No doubt, we all need a reminder to embrace the joy in the moment, no matter what’s going on around us. Check out our storefront here!

Thank you to our sponsor Walnut Creek Foods and Walnut Creek Cheese and Market. Walnut Creek Foods creates products that are carried in stores all over the United States. Click here to see where you can locate a store near you that carry their incredible products. If getting packages on your doorstep is more your speed, click here to see all the Walnut Creek Cheese and Market products that can be shipped right to your door!

In this episode, we get real about the pressure to "shrink" ourselves just to fit in with the crowd. We’re diving into why vulnerability is actually a superpower and how to stay true to yourself no matter who’s in the room. We also share some fun, practical challenges to help you practice being authentic in your everyday life. It’s all about ditching the mask and finding the peace that comes when your "inside" finally matches your "outside." Join us for a chat on why being yourself is the best way to have a good day.

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If you know anything about us at all, you know a good cup of coffee is important to us - especially “frothy coffee.” Click here to grab some of our These Are Good Days blend coffee - we created this blend and couldn’t love it more!

Also, we have merch! Grab a tshirt, hoodie, baseball cap, or other swag to show your love for the podcast, or just remind yourself that These Are Good Days! No doubt, we all need a reminder to embrace the joy in the moment, no matter what’s going on around us. Check out our storefront here!

Thank you to our sponsor Walnut Creek Foods and Walnut Creek Cheese and Market. Walnut Creek Foods creates products that are carried in stores all over the United States. Click here to see where you can locate a store near you that carry their incredible products. If getting packages on your doorstep is more your speed, click here to see all the Walnut Creek Cheese and Market products that can be shipped right to your door!

In this episode, we’re tackling the boredom blues by asking if having nothing to do is actually a secret weapon. We’ve all heard that "only boring people get bored," but we’re digging into whether there’s a deeper gift hidden in the quiet. We dive into what’s really happening in our brains when we hit a slump and why we think "peace" might not actually be the ultimate finish line. We’ll show you how we trade the doomscroll for a real sense of purpose that reaches beyond ourselves. It’s time to stop waiting for the fun to start and realize these are the good days—even the quiet ones.

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If you’ve been around the podcast for any length of time, and you’re in our podcast community, we would love for you to join us on our Patreon. Patreon is where you go to support us, get more TAGD content, download exclusive episodes and recipes, and get behind the scenes looks at what’s going on with Lee Ann and Matt. Thanks for joining us!

If you know anything about us at all, you know a good cup of coffee is important to us - especially “frothy coffee.” Click here to grab some of our These Are Good Days blend coffee - we created this blend and couldn’t love it more!

Also, we have merch! Grab a tshirt, hoodie, baseball cap, or other swag to show your love for the podcast, or just remind yourself that These Are Good Days! No doubt, we all need a reminder to embrace the joy in the moment, no matter what’s going on around us. Check out our storefront here!

Thank you to our sponsor Walnut Creek Foods and Walnut Creek Cheese and Market. Walnut Creek Foods creates products that are carried in stores all over the United States. Click here to see where you can locate a store near you that carry their incredible products. If getting packages on your doorstep is more your speed, click here to see all the Walnut Creek Cheese and Market products that can be shipped right to your door!

Forget the frantic itch of FOMO—we’re officially entering our JOMO era and learning to love the sweet, sweet sound of saying "no." In this episode, we’re deconstructing those polished social media highlight reels so you can stop comparing your everyday "behind-the-scenes" to someone else’s curated best. We’ll teach you how to "play out the tape" and see through the social pressure to start prioritizing your own peace of mind. Imagine a life so aligned with your values that staying in with a book feels like winning the lottery instead of missing out. Join us as we celebrate the absolute magic of being exactly where you want to be!

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If you’ve been around the podcast for any length of time, and you’re in our podcast community, we would love for you to join us on our Patreon. Patreon is where you go to support us, get more TAGD content, download exclusive episodes and recipes, and get behind the scenes looks at what’s going on with Lee Ann and Matt. Thanks for joining us!

If you know anything about us at all, you know a good cup of coffee is important to us - especially “frothy coffee.” Click here to grab some of our These Are Good Days blend coffee - we created this blend and couldn’t love it more!

Also, we have merch! Grab a tshirt, hoodie, baseball cap, or other swag to show your love for the podcast, or just remind yourself that These Are Good Days! No doubt, we all need a reminder to embrace the joy in the moment, no matter what’s going on around us. Check out our storefront here!

Thank you to our sponsor Walnut Creek Foods and Walnut Creek Cheese and Market. Walnut Creek Foods creates products that are carried in stores all over the United States. Click here to see where you can locate a store near you that carry their incredible products. If getting packages on your doorstep is more your speed, click here to see all the Walnut Creek Cheese and Market products that can be shipped right to your door!

Matt is officially 41, and we’re celebrating with a look back at year 40! Matt’s breaking down four big lessons he learned while navigating his first year in the "40s club," and the one specific lesson he’s bringing into age 41. This episode is all about aging with a sense of humor and a lot of heart. We’re trading mid-life crises for mid-life clarity and focusing on what actually matters. Grab a cupcake and join us for a birthday chat about why life keeps getting better with every trip around the sun!

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Ina's Chocolate Cake

The Search for Significance by Robert McGee

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If you’ve been around the podcast for any length of time, and you’re in our podcast community, we would love for you to join us on our Patreon. Patreon is where you go to support us, get more TAGD content, download exclusive episodes and recipes, and get behind the scenes looks at what’s going on with Lee Ann and Matt. Thanks for joining us!

If you know anything about us at all, you know a good cup of coffee is important to us - especially “frothy coffee.” Click here to grab some of our These Are Good Days blend coffee - we created this blend and couldn’t love it more!

Also, we have merch! Grab a tshirt, hoodie, baseball cap, or other swag to show your love for the podcast, or just remind yourself that These Are Good Days! No doubt, we all need a reminder to embrace the joy in the moment, no matter what’s going on around us. Check out our storefront here!

Thank you to our sponsor Walnut Creek Foods and Walnut Creek Cheese and Market. Walnut Creek Foods creates products that are carried in stores all over the United States. Click here to see where you can locate a store near you that carry their incredible products. If getting packages on your doorstep is more your speed, click here to see all the Walnut Creek Cheese and Market products that can be shipped right to your door!

In Africa, Part 2, we’re diving deeper into Lee Ann’s journey with Compassion International, sharing stories of incredible joy that transcends material circumstances. From the food to the faces she’ll never forget, Lee Ann reflects on the profound gratitude she feels being home and how her worldview has permanently shifted. We talk about the lasting lifestyle changes she’s determined to make based on the resilience and heart she witnessed. Join us for a heartfelt conversation about how seeing the world can change the way you live right where you are.

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Granny Square Tutorial

Natasha's Kitchen Tomato Soup

Sugar Spun Run Baked Potato Soup

Thanks for being a part of our podcast community! You can follow Lee Ann and Matt on Instagram to keep up with happenings in between episodes. Click the link in their name to follow!

If you’ve been around the podcast for any length of time, and you’re in our podcast community, we would love for you to join us on our Patreon. Patreon is where you go to support us, get more TAGD content, download exclusive episodes and recipes, and get behind the scenes looks at what’s going on with Lee Ann and Matt. Thanks for joining us!

If you know anything about us at all, you know a good cup of coffee is important to us - especially “frothy coffee.” Click here to grab some of our These Are Good Days blend coffee - we created this blend and couldn’t love it more!

Also, we have merch! Grab a tshirt, hoodie, baseball cap, or other swag to show your love for the podcast, or just remind yourself that These Are Good Days! No doubt, we all need a reminder to embrace the joy in the moment, no matter what’s going on around us. Check out our storefront here!

Thank you to our sponsor Walnut Creek Foods and Walnut Creek Cheese and Market. Walnut Creek Foods creates products that are carried in stores all over the United States. Click here to see where you can locate a store near you that carry their incredible products. If getting packages on your doorstep is more your speed, click here to see all the Walnut Creek Cheese and Market products that can be shipped right to your door!