Becoming your highest self isn’t about being perfect — it’s about becoming rooted. In this episode, we break down what it actually means to step into your highest self, why you keep falling back into old patterns, and how to build the internal foundation that makes you unshakeable.

This isn’t surface-level self-development. This is about identity, nervous system safety, and learning how to hold yourself through every version of growth.

In this episode, we talk about:

• What your highest self actually is
• How visualization creates real change
• Graceful accountability vs self-sabotage
• Becoming rooted and emotionally stable
• Using attention to build your life

If you’ve been trying to become your highest self but keep slipping back into old habits… this episode will show you what’s actually missing.

Mentioned in the episode:

• How to Communicate Better - With Others and With Yourself
• TO BE MAGNETIC - subconscious reprogramming and rewriting neuro pathways
• How Parts Work Helps Us Get to Know Ourselves
• Membership link and my Discount Code for TBM
  • JESSICA6850 - 15% off for up to 1 year
  • To Be Magnetic - Membership

Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

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This week, we’re diving into relationship patterns—but not from the surface level. With the Libra full moon highlighting how you show up in connection, this episode is about what’s actually keeping you in the same dynamics… even when you say you want something different.

Because it’s not just about attraction—it’s about familiarity, nervous system wiring, and the choices you make once someone is in front of you.

• How your past shapes what feels like “love”
• Why chemistry can be misleading
• The pattern behind repeating the same dynamics
• What compatibility really looks and feels like
• Learning to choose something different

If you’ve ever thought “why does this keep happening to me?”… this will shift how you see it.

Mentioned in show:

• Astrology 101 Episode
• Astro-Charts Birth Chart

Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

Get Your Human Design Chart

Human Design Reading with Jessica: $250

Use coupon code for $50 off : PODCAST50

Scheduling: DM the podcast page

Membership link and my Discount Code for TBM

• JESSICA6850 - 15% off for up to 1 year
• To Be Magnetic - Membership

If you have any questions that you'd like advice please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.

You’re not confused — you just don’t trust yourself. In this episode, we get honest about how you’ve been trained to override your intuition, why you keep looking outside yourself for answers, and what it actually takes to rebuild self-trust so you can move with confidence.

• How you learned to ignore your inner knowing
• The moment you talk yourself out of what you feel
• Why you keep outsourcing your decisions
• How to rebuild self-trust through everyday choices

If you’ve been stuck in overthinking or waiting for clarity, this episode will shift how you listen to yourself — and what you do next.

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Episodes Mentioned:

• HD Authority - THE NEED TO KNOW ONE
• Bonus Points - Human Design Centers
• 2 Chainz - Codie Sanchez Podcast

Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck

Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee

Human Design Reading with Jessica: $250

Use ccoupon code for $50 off : PODCAST50

Scheduling: DM the podcast page

If you have any questions that you'd like advice please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.